You may be contemplating your breakup and if getting back with an ex is the right choice. As Taylor Swift would sing, “We are never ever ever getting back together, like ever”, but for a lot of breakups that is not the case.
4 Essentials if you are figuring out when to get back with your ex:
1. Figured out what you want in a relationship
Keep in mind that you have changed and so have they. Really take this time to figure out what you want for your future. You may be surprised to find that you do not want the things you once did the first time you made it official.
2. Spend time apart
Spending time alone creates great clarity. And even furthermore spending time apart adds to that clarity. This is your chance to figure out your hobbies and interests apart from your partner. You can reconnect with yourself and get to know who you are again.
3. Have a discussion of what didn’t work
Keep in mind you have a breakup for a reason. It is important to discuss what did not work. This will help one another see your part in it. And hey, you may even find you can’t agree so you will have to agree to disagree.
4. Set boundaries
This is your time to speak up! Talk about what you would like to see different this time in your relationship and how you both want to facilitate this together. Make sure both of you can agree on what it is you are working together to change.
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