When dating or in a relationship, we tend to put so much emphasis on finding the one but we don’t ever pause and really think about what we want. Ultimately we pick our partners because they have qualities we want in the future and ourselves.
Top 3 Questions to Ask Yourself When Dating or in a Relationship
What goals do you have for yourself?
It’s not always about the #CoupleGoals but really about YOUR goals. Figure out what it is you truly want to accomplish personally. This is a great way for you to focus on yourself and the hobbies that keep you interested. If getting an MBA or taking on that work promotion excites you, I say go for it! Find a way to schedule these goals out.
Now, how does this tie into dating and relationships? It is important NOT to neglect the big goals or little goals you may have for yourself. It’s a great way to practice balance while dating or in a relationship.
What do you want to improve on within?
Self-awareness is key. There is always room for self-work and self-improvement. Maybe you have been wanting to better yourself for your career or personal life. Bringing this awareness to your relationship or dates is great because you are truly connecting and in alignment with who you are.
If you are willing to put in the work on yourself then it will be more natural for you to put in the work on a future or current relationship. When you explore who you are as a person and where your strengths and weaknesses lie, then your dates and relationships will benefit.
Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
Think about your career and personal life. Maybe you want kids or maybe you don’t. These are all important things to consider. Having an idea of where you want to be in the next 5 years is a great way to start making moves toward those plans.
If you have big plans for the next 5 years then picking a partner who can accommodate them or communicate this to your current partner is key. It is important to consider your partner or who you are intending to date when figuring out what your next 5 years.
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